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Self pity is wicked and it is one of the most common conditions of mankind today

Ahab reclines resentfully beside untouched bread as Jezebel gestures persuasively; a green vineyard is visible beyond the palace opening.
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Self pity is wicked and it is one of the most common conditions of mankind today. The holy Ghost revealed to me many years ago in a two-tier revelation, that the whole body of Christ is under self pity, and that the whole world is under self pity. I'm talking about pouting, plain and simple. I want to explain what the spirit of pouting is all about, and then something else. Self pity is the result of wanting to have one's own way, and God not allowing it to be. When things don't go like we would like, or when people don't deal with us like they should; we have two choices: We can either start doing good, or continue to do good, and trust God; or we can feel sorry for ourselves for not "getting a good break." In the latter case there is no need to do anything right, because we have a convenient excuse to do wrong; meaning the whole "what's the use?" attitude. Someone who is prone to pouting can either repent of it and seek God's help and strength with honesty and humility, or they are always going to be a pouter. Why? Because anyone who is looking for an excuse to pout is certainly going to find plenty of them, always. Things just don't go the way we would like to see them go a lot of the time, in many walks of life; and people will often not deal rightly with you. But those who truly love God simply DO NOT waste time or spirit with self pity, because they are assured of the following powerful truth: "And we know that ALL things work together for GOOD to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose" (Rom. 8:28). That's really the end of all strife on the topic, unless of course you just don't believe the truth. The ONLY way that ALL things that happen can work for our good is if God truly is "working all things after the counsel of his own will," even as the Bible states (Eph. 1:11). If God is ONLY GOOD, and I know that he is, then he really and truly is purposing all things for the good of EVERYONE who will simply trust him. There is nothing to pout about. It comes down to there being a vast lack of knowledge of God, which the scripture says is the foundation for destruction (Hos. 4:1,6). If Joseph had pouted over the way his brothers dealt unjustly with him, then both himself and all of them, along with the rest of the world, would have simply starved to death. Either that or God would have found someone who WOULD NOT wallow in self pity, and wrought the great deliverance through them. But Joseph, who was in fact dealt with unjustly repeatedly even after being sold into Egypt by his brothers; told his brothers like it was when all was said and done: "But as for you, ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good, to bring to pass, as it is this day, to save much people alive" (Gen. 50:20). Joseph surely believed in Romans 8:28 a long, long time before it was written. Reason being that pure faith and trust in God's power and love has always been written in the hearts of those who have truly believed and loved him.

Yes friend, pouting truly is wicked, and the only person that will cater to a pouter is a wicked person. The wicked king Ahab of ancient Israel tried to buy a righteous man's vineyard because it was near Ahab's palace. When Naboth refused to sell his rightful inheritance in the land, Ahab went home and pouted up a storm: "And Ahab came into his house heavy and displeased because of the word which Naboth the Jezreelite had spoken to him: for he had said, I will not give thee the inheritance of my fathers. And he laid him down upon his bed, and turned away his face, and would eat no bread" (I Kin. 21:4). Ahab's wife Jezebel, one of the most wicked people recorded in the Bible, came to Ahab and fueled his pouting by catering to it, promising him that she would work things out for him to get what he wanted (I Kin. 21:5-7). So Jezebel set up a wicked council of men who accused Naboth of false charges, and stoned him to death (I Kin. 21:8-13). So Ahab got the vineyard, but God was watching and sent foth his OWN judgment for Ahab by his servant Elijah: "And thou shalt speak unto him, saying, Thus saith the Lord, Hast thou killed, and also taken possession? And thou shalt speak unto him, saying, Thus saith the Lord, In the place where dogs licked the blood of Naboth shall dogs lick thy blood, even thine... Behold, I will bring evil upon thee, and will take away thy posterity" (I Kin. 21:19,21). And God did not forget Jezebel for her part as well: "And of Jezebel also spake the Lord, saying, The dogs shall eat Jezebel by the wall of Jezreel" (I Kin. 21:23). Yes this is an escalated example of someone in a very high position, but the principles involved are unchangeable. God still abhors self pity, and he still abhors for someone to cater to someone else's self pity. And it is still true that nothing but evil can come from pouting or from someone catering to it. And God is still "the Judge of all the earth," and his judgments are invariable (Gen. 18:25; Mal. 3:6; Jas. 1:17). The "something else" that I spoke of getting to earlier is this: Self pity is strictly of the devil, for he is surely the king of pouting. He has been pouting hard and heavy ever since being cut off from God for his rebellion, and being cast out of heaven. The whole "that's not fair" thing comes from the devil, who has always felt that he wasn't treated "fairly" by God in these things. Anyone who pouts and anyone who caters to a pouter is motivated by demonic influence, straight up. That is why nothing but evil can come from it, as it was with Ahab and Jezebel. There is really no such thing as "fair" with God. There is only what is right in the sight of God, and THAT right is faith and trust in his power and love; that he truly IS working ALL things, both wanted and unwanted, for the GOOD of those who love him. The fact of the matter is that no pouter will go anywhere with God, and neither will any pouter get anything worthwhile done in this life carnally. Self pity is the sure pathway to becoming the proverbial "loser." God is looking for a few good 'Josephs,' and it's up to us if we want to be in that number. Amen.

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Lary R. Hale

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A Hero Finally Rests.

Lary Redman Hale of Louisville, KY entered into his greatest joy, the presence of King Jesus himself, welcomed by the cheers of angels and the saints of God on Sunday night, April 21, 2024.

What the outside world would see as the untimely passing of a humble, local minister, heaven saw as the triumphant finale of a valiant warrior's life. He fought the good fight, having kept the faith, and received what Christ himself called "The Champion's Wreath of Victory".

Lary was born November 13, 1954 to Marvin and Norma Hale. Being the youngest of his siblings ensured he had lots of time with his loving mother, from whom he undoubtedly developed his profound sensitivity, heartfelt sentimentality and emotional comfortability - characteristics that were trademarks of his life. He grew up surrounded by cousins and classmates that became his best friends.

At his 50 year class reunion he was overjoyed and excited to catch up with so many of them, smiling and laughing more than he had in a long time. He would often tell stories of how he treasured those times as a young boy riding bikes, shooting B.B guns and playing with his childhood dog Peanuts; all while getting into assorted harmless mischief. He cherished the time he spent living on his parents houseboat and helping his dad, a united states marine veteran, take care of the boat and dock.

His relationship with his dad was only strengthened in their later years as they watched boxing matches almost every weekend for the remainder of his dad's life. He admired his brother Gary for his athleticism and industrious attitude, and thought his sisters Vicki and Mila had hearts of gold just like his mother. In his teen years Lary developed three of his lifelong loves: swimming, cool cars and lifting weights.

Some people said Lary was part fish because of how well he swam, but Lary would correct them, he was actually part dolphin. As a young man he managed a health club where he helped multiple people lose weight and counted that a huge joy. He loved nature and taking photos of it, honing his skills and knowledge in cameras. His vocabulary was second to none and he enjoyed learning new words and using them especially in his writings.

Before he passed he still exercised as much as his body would allow and he longed to return to the ocean and the white sands of Destin, Florida.

Like most disenfranchised teens in the early 70s, Lary indulged in countless vices that left him empty and searching for more. Although his long black curly hair, loud clothes, muscles and muscle cars made him the envy of the boys and the heartthrob of the girls, none of these things satisfied his heart. He pursued a college education briefly, desiring to be a marine biologist or philosopher but found that this was not what he was missing either - he longed for true fulfillment.

Depressed, empty, and feeling hopeless, Lary heard about a particular beautiful girl he had a crush on that was attending a small church where the "Spirit of God" was changing people's lives. After wondering why someone like her would attend a church like that, he began to attend also.

After a few months, he made a simple prayer on his hands and knees, saying "God I can't stop smoking, drinking, raging or any of the other countless vices I have - but if you can set me free from these things, I'll know you're real and that you want me to serve you". The next morning Lary woke up and described the next few hours as "walking on air" realizing he was, in his words "delivered" and never going back to those vices.

This began his life long commitment to glorifying Jesus, the king of glory, for how he transformed Lary's life from darkness to light. Lary would marry that same beautiful girl, the love of his life, Fay Kustes, and they would have two sons together, Benjamin Isaac and Elisha Daniel. Lary's greatest joy in life was being a husband and father.

He was happiest when he was sharing what he was learning in the bible with his family, and teaching them that knowing God was simplistic and yet powerful - that God was not merely a religious concept, but a powerful savior on a day to day basis. As Lary made it his life's goal to find "the lost sheep", he would tap into his multifaceted creativity that went largely underappreciated.

Lary produced well over a thousand episodes of gospel presentations: self-producing, mixing, editing and encoding both a radio and television show. Between the two, he broadcast for over 30 years. All of this in the analog age, where self produced radio and TV shows were nearly unheard of, especially without any budget whatsoever.

Lary was an evangelist in Louisville and southern Indiana, being asked to preach and teach in multicultural and multi-generational churches across the city. The churches he was most loved and welcomed by were the African-American Baptist and Pentecostal churches that loved and welcomed his passionate, excitable and action packed style of preaching.

Once the dawn of the internet came, he immediately worked to have a website published, making his literature and gospel teachings available. Eventually he'd use social media to teach, preach and encourage believers all across the world. He would spend every night praying with and encouraging christians from every nation until the end of his life. Many of which saw him like a second father and all of whom greatly mourn his passing.

Even though he produced over a thousand episodes of media, taught in multiple churches, mentored in multiple countries, and had multiple printed works of literature, he considered his greatest life's work to be his two sons. One of their earliest memories is Lary saying "the most important job in the world is not preaching the gospel, it's raising kids in the gospel". This threaded through his entire life.

In his final week on earth, he reminisced on his life saying "I see my life as the highest success, because my life's work are my two sons, who I am so incredibly proud of - not for their natural achievements but for their love, humility and personal faith in Jesus that is not only evident in their lives but also in their love. Because of them, I know my life is a true success - and I credit Jesus for all of it".

His sons today see him as the most successful man they will ever know. He succeeded in loving them and never hurting them. Leading them and never controlling them. Being there for them and never leaving them. He was a man that would apologize quickly, forgive quickly, and always encouraged his sons to "get up and go from here". He succeeded in teaching them faith, hope and love in a world starving so badly for all three. His ministry lives on in them.

The lives of everyone touched by their lives are forever indebted to this humble, prayerful man of faith.

He is preceded in death by his father Marvin, mother Norma, sister Mila, sister-in-law Marlene, nephew Adam, aunts, uncles, treasured cousins, and his beloved dog of 18 years, Champ.

Until they are reunited in the glory of heaven, he is survived and will be missed by his sons, Benjamin and Elisha (Katrine), his wife of 30 years, Fay, his brother Gary, His sister Vicki (Dan), his cousins, nieces, nephews, his friends, and those that called him their pastor and teacher.

"The righteous perish, and no man lays it to heart: merciful men are taken away and no one considers that the righteous person is being spared from the evil to come. He shall enter into peace: he shall rest in his bed, having walked in uprightness." Isaiah 57:1&2

A life in pictures and film

Watch the tribute video shared with Lary’s obituary. It brings together moments from his life and footage of the man so many loved.

Video hosted by Tribute Slides through Newcomer Kentuckiana.

Original obituary at Newcomer Kentuckiana

Memories of Lary